Oh right, Halloween!

That did happen recently, didn't it?! With the excitement of Nathan coming home, Halloween kind of fell by the wayside.

Dorothy came by that afternoon to help me out with all of these the kids. As you can see, she came in costume which Patience loved, and Jordyn was not too sure about!

After dinner, the boys took the girls trick-or-treating which was very nice of them. Sean took advantage of the situation and did a little trick-or-treating for himself.

You might remember the costumes from last year. This is home economics 101: if the costumes still fit (snug is okay) and the kids are willing to wear them, then by all means do not by new costumes!

Nathan's 5-day leave...

We've been having a fantastic time with Nathan! Nathan, Don, and my parents arrived Saturday morning at a little past 2:00. We did quick hugs and catching up but then went to bed as the travellers had been awake almost 24 hours at that point, and we knew the girls would be waking up at their normal time.

Saturday was a very low-key day due to lack of sleep. But we did a lot of visiting and hearing Nathan's list of his Top 68 Moments in Boot Camp. Leave it to Nathan to find 68 moments to find humor in.

He's been getting ready to report to his unit in Seattle. Don and Lee are going to drive him down there tomorrow morning. He's reporting a day early because he wants to bank a day of leave and use it over the Thanksgiving holiday.

Here are some photos of Nick and his staff. We're still having a great time with him.

Cheers for now,

Cathi

Nick's first hockey game

Nick watched his first NHL game tonight while snuggling with Daddy. He was riveted. No, really, he loved it!

Such a newsy day...

Where to start?
How about with the most exciting?
We got a call from Nathan this morning. He was at Wal-Mart, enjoying a day of off-base leave! He bought a phone card with 70 minutes on it, and was bound and determined to use it all up so we talked for almost an hour. He decided he needed to go get some civilian food (it was 1 p.m. there and he hadn't eaten since breakfast) and he would try to get one more short call in before leave is over.
He told me that he had a real wake-up call on Thursday. Two people from the company ahead of them, Juliette, had two recruits reverted to Kilo company the day before their graduation. In other words, until you have gone through the graduation ceremony and have your certificate in your hot little hands, you can be reverted. Unbelievable. Those poor recruits and their family members who had airline tickets...
He also said that he had been in touch with the relocation person in Seattle and found out that when he first gets to his station he will most likely be in barracks, but after a few days he would be moved out "to economy," which means he'll have an apartment (possibly sharing with other coastie(s)) and will get extra pay to cover rent, utilities, and food. I wish I had spent more time with Nathan in the kitchen. He has no idea how to cook even the most simple things. Well, he could do mac & cheese and frozen pizza. Ug. Mom guilt kicking in.
I suppose I could do a "kitchen bootcamp" while Nathan is home and teach him how to make 3 or 4 staple dishes. He can eat breakfast and lunch on base but it closes at 4:00 so there is no dinner mess.
Which brings me to his next tidbit: it looks like he'll be working Monday through Friday 7:00-4:00. Weekends off, unless it's his duty watch. That will be so cool. He'll be able to take in baseball and football games and do other Seattle-related fun stuff. Or come home! He can ride the bus and the train free, and we can pick him up in Bellingham.
Okay, onto other family members.
Last night Don and I (and Nick) had a shopping date! The boys watched the girls (supposedly) while the three of us went to Old Navy. Don needed some updating in the wardrobe department. He got all stylish this past summer with great shorts and short-sleeved shirts, but now that the weather has changed he needed more suitable "on-site" clothes. Now he'll look great for Nathan's graduation. We hit some great sales and got him some great pants, sweaters, and jackets (Stacy and Clinton would approve!). And some shoes, as he was wearing shoes from San Jose. Okay, that was 15+ years ago. Those have got to go. It was lots of fun and Nick was great, except for his blow-out. Oh well.
Last night we did a change up in the night-time routine, after such a poor night of sleep the night before. We brought a space heater into our room along with Nick's cradle. Before that, he slept in our bed with us so that I could feed him easily (or lazily...) and make sure he was warm. Last night I fed him at 11ish, got him to sleep and put him in his cradle. He slept until 2:30. So did I. Thank you Lord. I fed him, burped him, and put him back in the cradle and he slept until 5ish. Another feeding. But this time he wouldn't let me put him in the cradle. He cried when he was down and would calm right down as soon as I picked him up. So I brought him back to bed with me and snuggled with him until morning. Which was 8:00. I kid you not. We slept until 8. It felt so great! Thankfully it was a Saturday morning and Don was up with the girls (they slept until 7). I feel very rested.
More news: Dylan started his job this morning at the chicken farm down the road. He'll be working about 6 hours each weekend and making $10/hr. Which means he'll have his band trip all paid for in just a few months. And he'll be able to replace his phone which inexplicably stopped working last week. He came home and told me all about it. The farm is all mechanized and the job will be somewhat interesting.
Don, Sean, and the girls are out running errands today which left me free to shower, do some laundry, watch a little t.v., and blog! Life is so good...

Who needs newborn diapers?!

Not Nick! He used his last swaddler (love those!) this morning so I put on a size 1, and lo and behold it fits him perfectly...

You can see he's getting chubbier. His legs are even holding up his socks now.

Last night was rough. He wasn't fussy...just wanted to eat every hour or so (it seemed). Both yesterday and today I've been up before 6 so I'm feeling pretty tired. I've also had an afternoon coffee just to keep my eyes open.

The boys have a Pro-D day, so they're home from school. You'll never guess what they're doing right now.

He smiles!

Tomorrow Nick will be one month old. Today I caught three smiles on camera! I thought I was pretty much done writing to Nathan, because of how long it takes a letter to get to Cape May, but between sending him these pics and telling him about San Jose's 7-6 shoot-out win last night, I think I might just have to send one more and hope he gets it before the 31st!

Hump Day, Week 7

Today is 1/2 way through Nathan's 7th week. By this time next week, Mom, Lee, and Don will all be packing their bags for early flights back east to watch Nathan graduate and to bring him home!

Yesterday we received Nathan's longest, juiciest letter yet...a full 5 pages describing bootcamp and the people therein. It felt like Christmas to have so much communication from Nathan. I can't wait until he's home.

Sean has decided to join not one, but two choirs at school. One is Jazz Express, which meets twice a week at lunchtime. The second is Redhawk Voices, which meets Wednesday mornings before school. Dylan also sings in Redhawk Voices. We're pleased that Sean is expanding his horizons but we need to keep an eye on how well Sean is able to add two more balls to his juggling routine.

Dylan has a job! Woo hoo! And not only is it a job, it's a perfect job. Which means that it won't conflict with school, it's close, and it will allow him to earn all the money he needs for his band tour (Disneyland during Spring break) without dipping into his savings. The actual job? Well, maybe not so perfect. He'll be working at a friend's egg farm, about 1/2 mile down the road, collecting and packing eggs, checking equipment, etc. It won't be hard, heavy, or dirty work. The thing Dylan might not appreciate is that he'll be working alone. After his summer of working here with 50 other teenagers, the chickens will probably not cut it in the "socialization" area. But he'll hopefully stick it out since, like I said, he needs the job.

At the moment all is well and life is good : )

See this huge baby?

After Nick's bath last night (in the big tub with Jordyn, no less!) we weighed him. In less than 4 weeks, Nick has gone from 6 pounds 5 ounces (discharge weight) to







































10 pounds!

Isn't that amazing? I know he's getting bigger, but since it's a gradual change I didn't think he was that different from coming home from the hospital. He's actually made a 50% weight gain. That's significant!

Everything is going well on the homefront. Today is another milestone for me: I get to take the girls to preschool all by myself as Don is working onsite today. Thankfully, the weather is nice. I think getting everyone out the door and into the big truck would be much less enjoyable in the rain!

Cheers,
Cathi

Nick's Big Day

This morning Nicholas went to church for the first time in his life. In honor of this momentous occasion, we bathed him last night (4th bath of his life...hey, he's the 6th!) so he looked very cute and clean. He was great...slept through the whole service! The girls were very happy to get back to their church routine.

We got another phone call from Nathan yesterday during his on-base leave. His whole company got 6 hours (3-9 p.m.) leave and when Nathan called he was giddy with freedom. We got to talk for about 15 minutes...until his phone card expired, and we had a great time talking. We did tell him that Don was attending his graduation ceremony, so there's no longer any reason to keep that under wraps. He told us he has to report to his unit by 4:30 on November 6, so he'll have 5 1/2 days of leave. He has a list of many things he would like to do during those days, and told us, "boot camp has taught me what can be accomplished in 5 days." I can't wait to see the new, improved Nathan. I'm hoping that boot camp has taken an otherwise perfect young man and taught him time management skills, self discipline, and attention to detail. Then there'd be very little to complain about.

It's a beautiful sunny but cold day here. Don and the girls spent a lot of time outside this afternoon. Now we're getting ready for a dinner of pork loin roast, red potatoes, and delicata squash for supper.

Cheers,
Cathi

Babymoon is over...

After 3 blissful weeks of being pampered and helped along, I am now flying solo and facing my new reality: three kids 4 and under. Mom and Lee left this morning and we all miss them already. They've been here since the day Nick was born and the closest I can come to describe how helpful they've been is to say that I've had the pleasure of having a wife and a chauffeur!

So the past three weeks have been really easy for me. I'd say I'm completely healed from my c-section, except that the actual incision is still a little tender.

Mr. Nick is still an amazing baby. He has had fussy evenings for the past three nights, so I guess that is technically a pattern. But ofther than that, he is calm and content. We are all in love : )

I promised mom that I would be more prolific about posting blog entries, so that she can see Nick's daily growth and change. I know she misses him already.

Thank you, Mom and Lee, for this wonderful three weeks. It's been the best gift we ever received. We love you...

Nick at 2 1/2 weeks

Here is Nicholas on his due date! I'm pretty sure he has gained a pound since we've been home...

He continues to be an amazingly content baby. We are so blessed, and I can't imagine life without him.

Nathan News!

Nathan called last night for his "5-minute business-only phone call." He sounded tired, like he hadn't had a good night's sleep for 5 weeks! I'm so thankful that I was here to get the call. Imagine what a let down it would have been for Nathan to get the answering machine after waiting 5 weeks to make a call.

He told us amazing news: he is stationed in Seattle! I couldn't believe it, but I'm so happy to know he'll be close. After this past 5 weeks without him, I realized that I'm really not ready to have him far away. Even thought he'll probably be out at sea on a cutter for up to 3 months, the fact that he's only a couple hours away by car seems very comforting. He's very happy, too.

He will definitely graduate on Oct. 31, barring getting "reverted" for disciplinary reasons. He passed his physical and classroom tests and he says he's doing great and it's not as hard as he thought it would be. I asked him how he was doing on a scale of 1 to 10 and he said, "about a 13 or 14."

He might get off-base leave granted next weekend, so he'll be able to call and talk as long as he wants (or until his phone card runs out). We're expecting a call on Saturday.

He also asked us to please contine to write, because getting mail is definitely the highlight of his day/week/life right now. If you're inclined to write, here is his address.

Welcome Nicholas David!

I have a new personal best record: 17 days early! Imagine my shock when my water broke during the middle of the night 5 days before my scheduled c-section! I was ecstatic to know that this would be my last pregnant day ever and that my son would have an even birthdate (of all 10 first cousins, the boys all have even dates and the girls all have odd dates, so I didn't want to mess it up with #10!), but having him come on the 24th did add a level of complexity: namely that my parents were traveling up that day to help with the baby, thinking that 5 days before my scheduled surgery would be plenty of a buffer! Of course we had no plan B, other than keeping Sean home from school to watch the girls while Don and I went to the hospital.

We got there around 5 and the nurses assessed me to see if I would need a c-section right away, or if I could "hang in there" until a more reasonable hour. After all, they'd hate to gather all the nurses and doctors in the middle of the night for no good reason!

The nurse couldn't find a heartbeat for awhile. And then when she did find one, it was faint. Yeah, that was a little unsettling. So she brought in an ultrasound machine and scanned me and found the little buggar baby at the very northern most point in my uterus, and sideways to boot! She had been looking for the heartbeat much lower, like near the birth canal. At that point she called in the doctor on call and let us know that the c-section would most likely be a.s.a.p. although not an emergency. With my water broken and the baby not down plugging up the hole, there was a threat of the umbilical cord prolapsing.

So the obstretician on call came in and started rallying the troops. She called our family doctor, Dr. Morgan to come in and assist. He did : )

We were wheeled into the operating theatre at about 6 and I was given the spinal. Langley hospital has an excellent anesthesiologist...I've had two spinals from him (Patience's birth and this surgery) and it really wasn't uncomfortable at all to get. They set up a drape (thank you, Lord) so I couldn't see what they were doing, and I couldn't feel any pain, but I could feel the pressure and the tugging involved in evicting Nicholas from my uterus's "penthouse apartment." Because he was so far up, the surgeon had to make the standard lateral cut along my bikini line, and then start cutting vertically from there until she could reach something on the baby. The vertical cut was only through the uterus, not the skin.

They delivered him at 6:37. He was 6 pounds, 13 ounces and about 20 inches long. He was very bloody when we first saw him, but I guess this is more standard with c-secion deliveries. Shortly after that, the baby nurse, Don, and Nicholas all went up to the maternity ward.

They took almost 90 minutes to give me a tubal ligation and repair all of the incisions. I bet Dr. Morgan wished he'd taken a pass on this morning's surgery! I was in recovery by 8 and they told me I couldn't leave there until I could move my feet. I was able to move them sideways and up and down the bed and begged for some water, some ice chips, anything wet! I think they saw me for the difficult patient I am and decided by 8:20 that I could go ahead on up to the maternity ward!

We still had some logistics to deal with...Don had to be at the Bellingham airport at 1:30 to pick up my parents! Don's aunt Dorothy came and spent most of the day with me and Nicholas at the hospital. Don took Sean to school and lunch hour and sprung Dylan to stay home with Jordyn, and Pam was so kind as to let Patience come and play with Danica for the afternoon. Phew!

We were in the hospital until Friday morning around 11. I've been home under the care and very watchful eyes of my mom, dad, and Don. My job is to sit or lay, preferably with my feet up (what's with the swollen feet/ankles? Good grief, they were never this bad when I was actually pregnant! It was actually difficult to walk on them on Friday and Saturday...), and hold and feed the baby. I feel really good right now. I can't imagine not having this support system in place, though. Imagine the women who come home from a c-section with a passel of children already at home who have to hit the ground running! I am so thankful for my family : )

Playing with the band...

Dylan, in an attempt to make himself look like a phenomenol scholarship recipient, has been trying to find a good "volunteer position." Last night he went to the Sea Cadets' band practice to see if he could be of any use to them. It looks like it might work out well. There are two new band members playing the trumpet who actually don't really know how to play the trumpet.

The first 30 minutes are practicing marching and playing their repertoir of like 7 songs, and the second 30 minutes are where the instrumentalists get instruction. Dylan did march with them, while sight-reading the music for an instrument that he hasn't played very much in the past year, so it was a learning experience for him, too.

Their band practices 1 hour each week directly before Sean has Guard practice, so it would be a very convenient volunteer gig. It's not a big band, and it's not even a very good band but hopefully Dylan can lend a hand to their brass section!

Lentils and Rice

This was leftovers from during the week...I decided that it would make good chicken food and the hens agree!

It's seasoned with taco seasoning so I wsn't sure how it would go over, but I apparently needn't have worried...

Speaking of hens, ours are still not laying, but we heard some pretty strange cackling and cawing this a.m. so I think their time is near!

C-section news...

I got a call from the hospital this afternoon and I now have some very important information regarding my surgery. I have to be at the hospital at 6:15 a.m. on Monday the 29th for an 8:00 surgery. I am first in line, so I won't have to deal with any backups (hopefully). And I'll most likely be in the hospital until Thursday morning. 10 more days. Maybe less!

Circle Time...

I got this picture of the girls at "circle time" today. This is where they sit on the circle carpet and sing their "goodbye song." The first day of school Jordyn wouldn't even get close to the carpet...she just stood off in the distance and watched the other kids. So Don bribed her...everyday that she participates in circle time she gets fruit snacks when she gets home. Well, that's an offer she can't refuse!

Sorry for the quality of the picture...I took it far away and zoomed in. But you can still get the basic jist of the situation. You can see how enthusiastic Miss Jordyn is. : )

It was very cute. Patience sat down first and then some other kids came in and sat beside her. When Jordyn came to sit down, there were no spaces left beside Patience. So Patience got up and moved to an empty place so that Jordyn could sit next to her. Warmed my heart right up.

Nathan Called!

Just a few minutes ago I received a call from Nathan! I have been reading the Cape May website and it says in several places, "No news is good news. Recruits are allowed to call home only to deliver bad news." So I immediately asked him, "Why are you calling?!"

It turns out he needed some banking information sent to him. I told him no one had received any mail from him so we didn't have his mail address. He said he's written 3 letters but neither us nor my mom has received any mail from him : (

He was able to give me his mailing address:

SR Murphy
Recruit Company Kilo 180
James Hall
USCG Training Center
1 Munro Avenue
Cape May, NJ
08204-5083

I asked if he could say hi to his dad and he said, "No. This call is strictly business."

I asked how he was doing, and he said, "I'm doing really, really good, but I need lots of mail."

He didn't sound good. He sounded on the verge of tears through the entire conversation. If you can find the time to drop him an encouraging line I know he would be very appreciative (me too).

Girly Girls

This morning I had a doctor appointment. Everything was fine, just like last time and all the times before that! I have one more appointment next week, and then my c-section on the following Monday.

When I came home I started doing some (never-ending) laundry, and then the girls asked if I'd do their nails. They've been wanting their toes painted ever since I got my pedicure done. So I got them onto the bathroom counter and gave them eyeliner, lipstick, and polish. They had a blast. Okay, I had lots of fun, too. And I'm especially having fun because I sent them out to show their father how beautiful they are and I know he's going to come undone seeing his baby daughters in makeup : )

Flowers

My volunteer flower bed is overflowing with dahlias, asters, cosmos, some bachelor buttons (but they're mostly gone now), basil, and cherry tomatoes! I planted the dahlias and asters (from seed), and the Sweet 1,000,000 tomato plant, but everything else came up on its own.

I still haven't received Nathan's letter from bootcamp, telling me his mailing address. I'm hoping it will come in today's mail, or that Mom and Lee will receive their letter today and call me with the address.

The boys are doing great in school: Sean is getting an A in Math 8, and as far as I know there are no "problem classes" for him. He's on the Grade 8 volleyball team, so he's busy after school Monday-Thursday. On Monday and Tuesday evenings he has cadets, so he's keeping his schedule pretty full! Dylan has scaled back his music involvement to 3 early mornings and 1 or 2 afternoons each week. We are carpooling with a family that lives around the corner whose son is in the exact same programs, so that really helps. We also broke down and bought the boys bus passes so they can take that if they're going or coming at the normal time. Their bikes have worked great for the first couple weeks of school, but already it's still fairly dark when Dylan would have to leave for an early morning choir or jazz practice.

The girls are quite content with their quiet little routine: preschool twice a week and church on Sunday. They're happy to stay home and play with each other...it's really nice to have them so close in age. Patience is practically shaking with anticipation of her new baby coming in less than two weeks. She and I organized the bathroom cabinet yesterday. She was the perfect partner...she can bend down and reach all the way to the back. Don and I went shopping on Sunday and stocked up on lots of toiletries so now they're all organized and we can see what we have.

We've been having wonderful weather. Sunny but not too hot. Don's been working a little everyday down at Radnai's, slowly getting the work done and the trees sold. He just sold 600 trees to a contracting outfit in charge of the new bridge that's going across the Fraser River, replacing the quaint little ferry that currently takes you from Ft. Langley to Maple Ridge. The nice thing about that order, besides the quantity, is that they want the trees to be more natural, which means Don no longer needs to cultivate them. That'll save a lot of work in the next two years.

He's decided to run a little retail operation this year...just Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays from 10-8. Right out of our driveway. Yep, that's scaling back quite a bit, but that means he'll be able to keep up with this computer clients and wholesale orders while still getting top dollar for some of his better/bigger trees. It's a nice compromise that I think I can live with.

Today after I drop the girls off at preschool I'm going to go have coffee with a friend. I haven't done anything like that in a long time! I have this very little window of opportunity to be kidless for a few hours at a time, so I need to take advantage of it...I think I'm going to try to make a hair appointment for Thursday.

Cheers,

Cathi

Happy Feet!

This afternoon I totally splurged (not quite as bad as Spa Utopia, but still a pretty penny!) and had an hour-long, indulgent pedicure. Nice....

The esthetician told me she couldn't give me the total foot/leg massage because it could bring on contractions. I said, "please bring them on. I'll tip you extra." But she wouldn't. So I asked her to show me how one would massage my feet/legs to bring on contractions and she showed me. So you know what Don will be doing everyday after my parents arrive!

I was ordered advised to go bright with my polish this time around because at my last pedicure I got a neutral color, because, well, I'm so darn practical. So, how's this for bright pink?

You can see some swelling in this picture, but they actually get worse in the evening. I wear these sandals almost exclusively and I have strap marks in the evening when I take them off.

A relaxed retirement

Here is our old beloved dog, Storm, who is resting on his first-ever, very own piece of furniture! This was the black futon frame that had an unfortunate meeting with 5 teenagers and from then on was unusable. So we moved it under the overhang and put Storm's dog beds and blanket on it. He thinks he is in hog heaven.

By the way, I did something pretty out-of-character for me: I made a pedicure appointment for tomorrow! I've been unable to reach my feet for awhile and I just noticed how much they need some attention. Especially now that I'm limited to sandals when I leave the house. So you know what tomorrow's picture will be!

Preschool Day #2...

...was better! Jordyn was again very reticent and wanted me to pick her up and hold her when we got there, but I just held her hand and dragged lead her inside. I helped her hang up her backpack and wash her hands, and then I sat her down at one of the tables that had toys all over it. I kissed her goodbye and then left. I looked at her through the window and saw her playing with the toy. Patience had come over and was playing with her, too.

When I got there to pick them up I looked through the window again and I saw her sitting on the circle carpet with the other kids. Yeah!

One of her teachers, Mrs. Tracy, said that Jordyn was fine all day long although she was pretty much glued to her the entire time. Even when Mrs. Tracy had to leave the room, Jordyn went with her. But Mrs. Tracy was okay with this, and thinks Jordyn will grow out of it, so we're going to consider it progress!

The girls got ice cream with sprinkles when they got home to celebrate Jordyn's progress.

Sausages...

No, not what we're having for dinner tonight...this is just how my ankles/feet look right now. Ug. Not pretty, and definitely not comfortable.
Did I mention I have only 18 more days (at the most) of being pregnant?

First Day of Preschool

This afternoon Patience and Jordyn had their first day of preschool. It was a "mini session" so the kids could have an hour to get used to the classroom and the routine. When I dropped the girls off, I peeked through the window and saw Jordyn planted in one spot, just staring at the commotion around her. When I returned, I peeked through the window again as the kids were doing "circle time," which is songs, stories, etc. I always thought Jordyn would love this part of the day. All of the kids were sitting on the carpet, listening and interacting, except Jordyn. She, again, was planted to the ground, about 10 feet away from the rest of the class. It broke my heart. But when I went in to get them, she didn't cry. She just hugged me. And then she was very quiet on the way home. I'm not sure if she's just too young, or if she's just slow at warming up to new situations. I guess time will tell...

Our beautiful girls

Here are the girls before church this morning in their matching Hawaiian outfits (compliments of Grandma and Papa, of course).


Yesterday Don Sr. came down from Merritt to help Don Jr. grade and tag his trees. This is basically determining if the tree is a "#1," which will fetch top dollar, or a "#2," which is only suitable for wholesale.


This morning they were up early, had breakfast, and then went back to do more of the same. Don found out that he has a lot more Noble fir trees than he originally thought. This is good because Nobles sell well and fetch a good price, but it also means he needs to put on his salesman hat and start flogging those puppies.


The kids and I went to church this morning. The service was great, and the girls both had a great time at their perspective kids program.


After lunch, Sean and I went out to our disgusting freezer/storage room and did some cleaning. Glenda had come over earlier in the week to take all of the 4-H stuff off my hands, so it really wasn't as big a job as it could have been. We threw away a lot of stuff, organized what was left, and then Don came in and swept. It's much improved!


Tonight we celebrated beautiful weather with bar-b-qued hamburgers and pasta salad al fresco. It's a beautiful evening still and the girls are back to their sandbox. Life is good.


Nathan has probably just finished dining with my mom, Lee, my dad, and Carmen at Original Joes in San Jose. That's the favorite restaurant of the San Jose Sharks, so of course we're all hoping he sees some of his favorite players there!

In 22 minutes, he's due at the hotel where the Coast Guard billets their recruits. Tomorrow a.m. very early, a bus will take him and dozens of other young people to be processed and then flown out to Pennsylvania. His adventure begins! I hope my parents (especially my mom) can handle the goodbye. Better her than me...at least she can have as much wine as she needs wants afterwards.

Help! I'm in trouble!

When I hadn't seen Jordyn in 5.4 nanoseconds, I started getting nervous because she can do major destruction in less time than that. So I called her.

"Jordyn, where are you?"

"Help, I'm in trouble!"

"You're in trouble?"

"Yes, I can't see!"

Running to the bathroom, I find this:

I so can't wait for the cavalry to arrive.

My Updated Countdown...

Remember my countdown from the end of June? Well, all of those milestones have been reached except for the September 29th one...

My September countdown looks like this:

September 9: preschool starts for the girls
September 24: Mom and Lee arrive to keep me from going insane help when the baby is born.
September 29: Meet the new baby!

Theoretically speaking, the baby could arrive sooner. The c-section is scheduled for 38 weeks and 2 days, but I always have my babies early...Patience arrived at 38 weeks exactly. I'm hoping he arrives on an even date, to keep the family tradition intact.

And he's off!

The girls and I took Nathan to the Bellingham airport today for the first step of his adventure: spending the weekend with my mom and Lee! We took longer than anticipated to get through the border so we ended up feeling rushed to get to the airport on time. So I didn't even have time to get emotional at all...I was just worried about him missing his flight!

At the airport, he told me to not worry about parking and bringing the girls in, so we just dropped him off at the curb. I gave him a hug, told him I'd call him tonight, and then he hugged and kissed his sisters, and he was off.

Here are some photos we took this morning before we left:















Heather, do you notice who is still wearing her watch? And yes, it's still "3 o'clock" everytime you ask her what time it is...

Not OK now...

I was fine until I heard Nathan saying goodbye to Don's parents on the phone. He told them how much he appreciated having them in his life and how much they mean to him. I lost it. And I'm still crying...

A new do...

I enjoyed Jordyn's long hair and she was really good about letting me brush it, put it up, etc, but it was really thin to be that long so this morning I gave her a haircut in the backyard. It's just like Patience used to wear her hair...short in the back, tapering longer in the front, with bangs. Here is her new look:





I think it'll be a good cut on her while we wait for her hair to thicken up.

So, yesterday Don took Nathan and I south of the border. We stopped at Nathan's bank in Washington and wire-transfered all of his funds to his new Coast Guard credit union account, and then tried to explain the importance of keeping his receipt showing that transaction. I think Nathan is going to have to learn a few lessons the hard way...

From there we headed to Val and Dave's, where we saw the cutest little miniature horse named Stuart Little and then we loaded up all of the baby stuff that we might need into the back of Don's pickup. Now we have a carseat to bring the baby home in plus a million billion other things!

Then Val, Dave, Don, Nathan, and I all headed out to the Richey's new favorite restaurant, Taco Lobo, in downtown Bellingham. It was delicious and we had lots of fun. We headed back to their house to help them at a delicious Key Lime cheesecake that Dave found at Costco. Mom, that would have totally been worth the extra points!

We got home around 8:30. Jordyn was already asleep in bed, but big brother babysitters graciously let Patience stay up late and watch t.v.

This morning I had a doctor appointment. Everything continues to look/sound/feel good and we're still on schedule for a 9/29 delivery unless the baby decides to come earlier.

Nathan is multi-tasking...making sure his ATM card works since we changed his bank account from a savings to a checking, and getting in his daily exercise. He's biking down to the Co-op and back...around 5 miles, I think.

In 24 hours we'll be on our way to the Bellingham airport. I'm doing okay, all things considered...

The Banking Day...

We spent most of the work-day hours today getting Nathan a bank account at the Coast Guard credit union...by fax, of course. And getting him an ATM card that will work in the states. Yes, we've put this step off too long, and were really up against the wall here. His recruiter even said that if he got audited today, Nathan would be "cancelled" due to lack of a payroll deposit form.
The good news is that as of 3:00 or so today, he is all set. Phew. I asked Nathan what he was going to do when he didn't have a secretary to make endless phone calls, fill out forms, etc. and he assured me he was looking to replace me as soon as he gets out of boot camp. I guess when he interviews for the girlfriend position he'll have organization, phone, and penmanship skills as a very high priority.

Right now Don, Nathan, and Peter are at the movies watching the new Star Wars movie. The animated one.

Tomorrow we have a few appointments and then Don has some suprise up his sleeve. He said that Nathan and I have to be ready to go at 3:30 and that I shouldn't worry about anything (childcare, dinner, etc.). I do know that we'll be heading south of the border...Don told me that when we were trying to figure out our banking options. I'll post a.s.a.p. so none of you die of curiosity.

Don and Dylan worked on the trees today, but Don continues to be discouraged by the amount of work still to be done at Radnai's. Unfortunately, his work force is about to be otherwise occupied.

Sean had school today for a few hours. His new school has all of the Grade 8's come on the first day for a barbeque and an assembly. Then tomorrow will hopefully be not so scary for the new kids. One funny thing is that Sean's Grade 7 teacher, Mrs. Cuthbert, is now teaching at the secondary school, and Sean has her for both homeroom and math. Ha! He won't get away with anything!

Tonight is cadets' first parade night is tonight. Sean is very excited because he is now one rank higher than he has been for 1.5 years and he gets to take new training classes, etc.

A busy Tuesday, now that I write it all down! No wonder we just had pancakes for dinner!

By the way, I asked Nathan what he wanted for his last dinner at home on Thursday night and he requested lasagna. Lucky for me, I have several frozen ones left over from his party. You know, the one with lots of food and guests who had already just eaten? But Nathan was happy to have frozen, commercial lasagna as opposed to a fresh, homemade one. That's my low-maintenace boy!

A Happy Place for Sand

Yesterday afternoon Nathan moved the girls' sand table over under the Magnolia tree and re-filled the sand. I'm hoping that the tree will offer some protection from the rain because even with the lids on, the rain fills the table when it rains hard. The old swing makes a fine shelf for some of the larger sand toys.

This morning Nathan and Dylan left with Don bright and early to work at Radnai's. Don's hoping the boys can work 4-5 hours and that he can last all day long. The weather is finally acting appropriately...no rain in the forecast for the next while, so it's a good time to work outside.

Last night Don, Nathan, the girls, and I went to the last Mexican Farm Worker soccer game/bbq that our church has been doing all summer long. We made it to the first one as well, and then Nathan left for Quadra and Dylan had work conflicts. It was lots of fun and you can see that the farm workers have gotten to know lots of the "gringos" over the course of the summer. Some are even taking English lessons from a woman from our church.

I've spent the morning doing laundry (the story of my life, really, but I want to make sure Dylan and Sean have their full arsenal of clothing for school), cleaning out and turning off the downstairs fridge (we've finally finished the party leftovers), and just generally keeping myself busy tidying up this now-huge house.

Did I tell you all that this winter we'll be hunkering in the bunker? We're going to forego heating the upstairs part of the house at all and do all of our living in the new smaller quarters downstairs. This end is better insulated and has everything we need. We'll still sleep upstairs, but then we'll have to heat only the bedrooms at nighttime instead of trying to keep the entire end heated all day long. We're sure missing the wood stove now that power prices are through the roof. Actually, I'm pretty sure that Don and the boys don't miss it at all...it was a lot of work to get the wood, chop it, stack it, haul it in, build a fire, add wood to the fire, etc. for 6 months out of the year.

I hope everyone is enjoying their Labor Day!

Cheers,
Cathi